Undivided Lives

Most of us live to compartmentalized lives. We have our Christian parts of our life and our not-so-spiritual parts of our life. God is present in all of our moments and we can live with him in all of them, but many of us buy into this false idea that only a select few practices are “spiritual”.
 
When we believe in this division, we live a divided life. We try to find a balance of required “spiritual” things like praying and reading our Bibles, and “unspiritual”, but necessary, things like going to work and cooking dinner. Trying to balance this divided life will wear you out. God did not intend this.
 
Rather than trying to strike this balance, we can live whole lives totally centered on Jesus, finding him in every moment. We can do all things in his presence, by his power, for his glory. In fact, those things we consider more spiritual, such as praying and reading the Bible, serve to help us develop a closeness with God that we continue to abide in while we go about our daily lives. In this way of living, we find rest and peace.
 
Through September, the teens on Wednesdays will be learning how to tear down the compartments and open their whole lives up to God. Each week, they’ll bring home a sheet with some practices to implement. Take a look at it and discuss it with them. You may find some practices that would be beneficial for you to work into the regular rhythm of your family.


Read the Bible Aloud with One Another

Twenty-some years ago I sat in a church leader conference of four or five thousand people. I assume all of us gathered to hear great preaching by some very well-known ministers, and we were not disappointed — the messages we heard were inspiring — but I cannot remember any of those messages but one. The memorable one came from a young man wearing a white robe (he looked like the Jesus pictures you often see in church), who simply took the stage and recited the entire Sermon on the Mount, from memory. It was the best sermon of the night and I’ve never forgotten it.
Every pastor or small group leader wants the people he or she leads to become disciples of Jesus. Every Christian parent wants their child to follow Jesus and find an abundant life, rather than a disastrous life. The living God has equipped us for this divine and noble task: He has given us the Bible and He wants us to read aloud to one another. Church leaders are to read it to their students and parents are to read it to their children. “Is that it?” you ask. No, there’s more to making disciples and raising children than just reading the Bible aloud to them, but that is a BIG part of it, and far too often neglected.
Recently I heard about Bill, a New York City office manager who invited his associates to come into his office at lunchtime to listen to the Word of Promise audio Bible. Bill gave no comment or sermon at the end of lunch; each one just listened, then went back to work. Here’s my point: the Bible was designed to be read aloud in community for the purpose of transformation. Why not invite people to your home or space at work to simply hear the Bible read aloud? YouVersion, ESV Bible, and Dwell are a few of the apps available to assist anyone in having the Bible read aloud.
The Lord God instructed Moses to regularly read the Law to Israel (Exodus 24:7). To begin His public ministry, Jesus read aloud from the Book of Isaiah in the synagogue. Paul instructed Timothy to “devote himself to the public reading of Scripture” (1 Timothy 4:13). The most practiced spiritual disciple in the Bible is reading the Bible aloud in community. If we do likewise, it may be the thing that does the most good for others, and what others remember most about us.
 
Grace & Peace, Bob Paddock


September Events

9.8.18 – Navigate

  • An event to equip parents of teenagers to disciple their children, to stay aware of messages their children receive through various media, and to help them understand current trends in technology and apps. 
  • $15 per person. Includes breakfast and lunch.
  • Go to camppitt.org to sign up.
 

9.9.18 – Membership Discovery Luncheon

  • 12:30PM-2PM
  • Lunch Provided
  • If you’re new to Cornerstone and want to learn more about who we are or if you’re considering becoming a member of our congregation, join us for a meal and get to know more about us and our mission. 
 

9.22.18 – Oceana Air Show

  • A group of us will travel to Oceana to see the Blue Angels air show. 
  • Depart Cornerstone at 6AM and return at 9:30PM.
  • $35.00 per person. Covers bus fare. 
  • A bagged dinner will be provided.
  • Financial assistance is available. 
  • Contact Paul Armstrong for more info. 989-280-1718
 

9.29.18 – Cornerstone Festival

10AM-4PM
  • An event here at Cornerstone featuring local artisans, stew, live music, and free kids’ activities. 
  • Contact Tia if you would like to set get booth space.
  • We need volunteers to help run the festival. Choose a morning or afternoon slot to volunteer in. Contact Tia.


Guard Against Every Kind of Greed

Guard against every kind of greed. Life is not measured by how much you own. — Luke 12:15

Jean Paul Getty, the world’s richest private citizen, amassed more than $25 billion (by today’s standards) before his death in 1976 — financially wealthy beyond comparison, but spiritually and relationally bankrupt. His greed led to a strong distrust of people and five failed marriages. Getty was also infamous for his frugal ways: for example, he washed his own clothes, reused stationary, installed a pay phone for guests in his Sutton mansion, and when his grandson J. P. Getty III was kidnapped, he negotiated the ransom from $17 million down to $3 million. His grandson never fully recovered from the five-month kidnapping, and the trauma eventually led him to drug addiction and death. Greed will always leave a wide wake of destruction in its path.

The essence of greed is to hoard God-provided resources for selfish desires. Material things often create the greatest test of our devotion as Christians. Greed reveals that we see ourselves as owners rather than stewards. Jesus instructs us to guard against greed because it works in a stealthy manner, distorting reality. Jesus’ parable of the rich fool (Luke 12:16–20) illustrated how a wealthy farmer’s greed kept him from sharing with those in need and fooled him into thinking he would live in luxury for many years. But the farmer dies in greed and loses everything.

Jesus follows this parable with a statement that provides the very best security against the attack of greed: “[be] rich toward God” (Luke 12:21). Greed is overcome through investing in the Kingdom of God. The Christian makes deposits in His Kingdom through acts of mercy, sacrifice, generosity, worship, service, and faithfulness.

“The meek shall inherit the earth, but not the mineral rights,” Getty famously said, revealing how greed corrupts a person’s worldview and mocks the Creator God.  As followers of Jesus, our worldview has both earthly justice and eternity in sight. Be on guard against greed and be rich toward God.

Blessings, Bob Paddock



June Events

Wednesday Night Summer Schedule
  • There will be no meals on Wednesday nights until August
  • Combined Worship at 6:15
  • All groups meet at 6:30
 
Family Camping VBS
  • June 1-2. Kickoff is on the 1st at 5:30.
  • Bring your own tent and chair and camp out with us. 
  • Fellowship, food, games, workshops for the whole family!
  • Sign up at the connect desk.


Agreeing With God Against Ourselves

As Christ-followers, do we still need to acknowledge our sins? In the prayer Jesus himself taught his disciples, we find this request: “Forgive us our sins, for we ourselves also forgive everyone who is indebted to us” (Luke 11:4).

When repentance is part of the reconciliation process for human relationships (as described in Luke 17:3–4), why wouldn’t it be part of our relationship with our heavenly Father? Do we expect to remain close to him if we refuse to be honest about doing things he wouldn’t have wanted us to do?

In the January issue of The Lookout (I know I’m going back a bit, but it was a good article!), one author described confession as “agreeing with God against ourselves” (p. 39, “An Obedient Faith”). Yes, God already knows what we’ve done, but dealing with a fault requires first acknowledging it — agreeing that we were in the wrong. Without that admission, how can we begin to receive his grace or make a change?

Moreover, James suggests that we need to confess not only directly to God, but also to each other: “Therefore confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed” (James 5:16). This is hard to do, and puzzling besides — what does physical healing have to do with it? All I can say here is that God chooses how to administer grace to us, and we choose whether or not to receive it.

When we come together, we may sing a song of confession, or one of the leaders may pray a prayer of confession on everyone’s behalf. You can think of this as part of the way in which worship services are like training wheels for our lives as Jesus’ disciples — not the full expression of our praise, prayer, fellowship, study, or giving; but a short time in which we get to do, and learn how to do, these things, along with each other.

I believe that confession is essential to our relationship with God. When his truth enters our lives, we must agree with him against ourselves in order to make space for his mercy and renewal.

David Mitchell,
Worship Arts Director



Tend the Garden

On Wednesday nights, we recently finished going through the book of Genesis with the teenagers. One of the big themes we focused on was humanity’s special identity and purpose. We all bear the image of God, and with that special identity comes the important task of tending the garden. God gave humanity the privilege of ruling alongside him, of making sure that his will was done in creation. Jesus renewed this original calling for humanity in the Great Commission.
 
After finishing the series, we have spent time examining our present world, how it is in line with God’s will, how it is out of line, and what we can do to make things better. Our actions, big and small, can push things closer to or further from the way God intends things to be. If kids go without food, we can start a backpack program at a school to provide for them. If our schools have lonely people, we can befriend them. If a person loses everything in a fire, we can lead the charge in rounding up supplies to provide for them.
 
We have received an exciting role as citizens of the Kingdom of God. Join with your kids in learning to recognize the areas in our day to day lives in which we can bring the light of Christ into a situation and make the world a little bit better.


My Identity Found in Christ

Finding our identity in Christ can seem like some mystical process comparable to becoming a Jedi knight, but it’s really not difficult or complicated, because the Holy Spirit directs our steps if we simply follow his lead. When the two would-be disciples Andrew and John showed curiosity by following Jesus, He turned to them and asked, “What do you want?” That question underlies almost every other question Jesus asks.

In his book You Are What You Love, James K. A. Smith penned, “Our wants and longings and desires are at the core of our identity, the wellspring from which our actions and behaviors flow.”

Pay attention — this is important: finding our identity in Christ and becoming a disciple of Jesus (a Christian) go hand in hand.  Spiritual disciplines such as prayer, Bible study, fasting, living in Christian community, generosity, practicing a weekly time of Sabbath rest, and attending weekly worship, cultivate our new identity. Each of these disciplines puts us under the influence of the Holy Spirit, which steadily extracts our corrupted nature and rebuilds the new person in the likeness of Jesus. Church people call that process “sanctification”.

A great many would-be disciples fail to find their identity in Christ because their connection with Jesus is more like adding chrome to a Harley, redecorating their house, or adding a new Christian playlist to their Spotify account. Surface treatments never result in transformation. Finding your identity in Christ requires a change of heart and action.

Quoting James Smith once more: “So discipleship is more a hungering and thirsting than a knowing and believing.” As we align our desires to God’s (mercy, justice, forgiveness, etc.), we will super-naturally identify more with Jesus. Our goal is to fully match our desires to God’s desires.

Pray for the Holy Spirit to help you submit. Make yourself available to watch and learn from other disciples. Our desire grows with our doing, so practice your faith, and in the process your identity in Jesus will become more evident.

Grace & Peace, Bob Paddock



Be Still

Our world has more noise than ever before. We have grown so accustomed to it that most of us can’t tolerate sitting in silence with nothing consuming our attention. We have a constant pseudo-connection with our friends, a buffet of television and media to consume at any moment, teenagers consume more than 24 hours of media a day. All of this can be good and fun in moderation, but when we fall into an uncontrollable binge of it, the result is no better than any other sort of binge. Our media binges leave no time for deep thinking about anything. Not having to sit through quiet moments makes us highly prone to boredom which drives us further into the rut of seeking that next hit of entertainment. Less free time leaves us less capable of creativity. A life spent bouncing from one passive consumption of media to the next leads to looking back on large swaths of time spent doing nothing of value leaving us unfulfilled and unsatisfied. And the person with no quiet moments to spare undoubtedly lacks any sort of participation in spiritual discipline.
As parents, make time where the thunder of outside voices gets silenced. Set up times and places where the tv doesn’t come on and the phones don’t come out. Set aside a specific period, maybe even a day a week, in which we don’t use our screens. Enjoy a day out in nature. Help your kids learn a skill or hobby that isn’t reliant on screens and content creators. Talk face to face and develop the conversation skills that young people increasingly lack. Grapple with big issues and develop critical thinking. Pray. Meditate. Read. Exercise.
 
Lead on this parents. After all, study after study shows that our screen addiction is actually worse than our kids’.
Larry Hunt, Student Minister


Mercy

This is an interesting process for me. Writing a newsletter article to go with my word/topic for the month isn’t as easy as you’d think. What I do on Facebook every morning is finding God’s words and various song writers’ words about the word/topic of the month. I enjoy reading many different variations on a theme (and I hope those who are following are, also). It’s amazing how many different ways you can talk about (sing about) a particular topic and it opens your eyes sometimes…kinda’ like how you can read a Bible passage over and over, for years and years, and suddenly “ding ding ding” it makes sense or you have a whole new understanding of it. But to sit down and think about the word/topic, and write out my own thoughts, memories or opinions is a bit more difficult. Hopefully it’s making me more aware of things I should be doing…..or not doing!
 
My word/topic for February is MERCY. An appropriate topic for the month of February when the world tends to focus on love (Valentine’s Day), don’t you think? One dictionary defines mercy as “compassion or forgiveness shown toward someone whom it is within one’s power to punish or harm” and “an event to be grateful for, especially because its occurrence prevents something unpleasant or provides relief from suffering”. Hmmm….do I practice this? In some instances, particularly in the past, not so much. I may not have physically done something to harm someone, but I definitely have thought of all sorts of creative ways that it’d be nice to get back at those who’ve done things to me or to those I love. Pretty sure this falls in the same category as “…anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matthew 5:28 NIV) and “ ‘You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment.’“ (Matthew 5:21 and 22a NIV)
 
Are we really showing forgiveness to those who do us wrong? Would we be there to help them if they fell on hard times? Are we truly praying for them? And I don’t mean praying for God’s judgment to fall on them either….y’all know exactly what I mean! Are we following God’s directive “…love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” (Matthew 5:44 NIV)? This month (and ever afterward), let’s all actively work to put this concept into practice. Let’s look for ways to show mercy to those folks that we believe have wronged us. I’d be interested to hear how this works out. Shoot me an email evidencetech@juno.com or let me know when we see each other. Would love to share and celebrate how God works!!
 
Tia Harmon, Administrative Assistant